These are my feelings based on what I have learned from Torah and Halacha, and from what I have observed over the years.
Here were her questions:
1)For married women, do you dress by the same standards as you did when you got married?
Also for marriedwomen, do you and your husband conflict about this issue?
I actually dress by stricter standards than when I first married; I little by little became more observant, from initially being 'conservadox'--walking to shul, but using electricity on Shabbat (!), to returning to my Chassidic roots and becoming fully Orthodox, albeit still 'modern' by certain standards. My husband is not concerned about this issue.
He is more laid back and nonchalant about these things. For example: once, justbefore Shabba…