This is what I meant when I said elsewhere in comments and on this blog that there are problems within the Jewish community and the practice of Judaism. What is important? What is true observance of Torah? Where are mitzvot bein adam le-havero ? How should a Jew treat his/her fellow man/woman? This is very frustrating. JCop in a comment asked me, 'but where do we start cleaning up [our act]?'
Please, I welcome all your comments and ideas.